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By: Lucy

Thanks a bunch.

By: A J

Thanks!
thanks guys! thats what i thought… but since it was given to a little girl i kind of got confused.

By: e s c a m i l l a

Mine is a photo of a little girl in Russia. It’s black & white. She was an orphan, and she had red hair and green eyes (I know cos I asked the photographer. I never found out what happened to her, it was a photo done by a journalist who did a gallery showing of his work. He gave me a print of it cos I wouldn’t leave him alone.

By: ♠Gotham♠

I have always been liberal with visitation, and allowed them to go whenever he wanted as long as we didn’t have other plans. We’re both remarried, and have one more child each. He is divorced again, but has full custody of his other little girl who is 8. I’ve never gone after an increase in child support, and he only has to pay $260 a month. He’s currently only one month behind, but has been as many as 4. He pays to a court clerk, and she cuts me a check, we don’t do it through the OCSE.

He has always been rather mean. He has PTSD stemming from an armed robbery in which he was beaten severely. He refuses to seek help, and it eventually led to our divorce. He does things like make lists for everything, literally. I can still hear him in my head : “I brushed my hair, I put oxy on my face, I brushed my teeth, I shaved, I have a shirt on…” and on and on and on. All doors and windows are checked numerous times before he goes to bed. He used to put tape across the outside of the doors when he’d go to work so he could see if I opened the door or not. Extremely paranoid is putting it mildly. He’s also an alcoholic who drinks a 30 pack in 2 days.

Most of the time when he wants the kids, it’s because he has to work nights (he works in a mill, sometimes 7p-7a, sometimes 11p-7a) and he wants them there with his other kid. He almost never takes them when he’s not working. He doesn’t take them to the park, or anywhere more exciting than Wal-Mart. He doesn’t play with them, or allow them outside. Their role when there is to help him rearrange furniture, help him clean, babysit his kid, and be his best friends. He has no other friends. He tells the kids everything, even how much money he makes, how much his bills are, how much money he has.

He has the kids on a strict diet while there too. They are allowed to share a Little Debbie if it’s a 2-pack, they can have their own if it’s a single. Then lunch is at precisely noon, and they can have 2 pieces of bread, one piece of bologna, and some mustard. Once in a while he will give them each a bad of the 30 cent chips, you know, the little ones. If he’s feeling rich, he might give them another Little Debbie. Supper is usually a tv dinner, a pot pie, or a couple of frozen burritos. They are allowed one cup a day, and can drink water from the tap (ok, nothing at all wrong with that, honestly) Once in a great while he will buy them a soda. If they bring their own sodas, they can’t put them in the fridge as it would mess up the order of things in the fridge.

My son’s best friend moved about a year ago. Many times he has called or come by wanting my son to go to his house for the weekend. I always say yes, that kid is like another son to me. Son will call his dad, and his dad will say ‘no, I need you here to watch Courtney.’ Well, Thanksgiving afternoon, Cole walks in the door. He wanted Josh to come to his house for the weekend. I said no problem, but Josh needed to check with his dad since it was his year for Thanksgiving. I should note, I dropped the kids off at his house the evening before, and he let me come get them, including his kid Courtney, on Thanksgiving morning. We invited him to dinner as well, but he refused.

The ex said no. Josh hasn’t been to Cole’s since he moved. Cole always shows up on the ex’s weekend. Mind you, he doesn’t have weekend visitation unless I say he can. So, Josh decided to go anyway. His dad was furious. They have not spoken since. He called me yelling and screaming about me taking away his thanksgiving with his kids, and I had no right to tell Josh he could go.

He got so mad he sent Kait (our daughter, 13) home Friday afternoon instead of keeping her all weekend like he’d planned. He also called in sick to work friday and saturday nights. Now he blames Kait for him loosing two days at work. He yelled at her on the phone and told her she was going to grow up to be no good like her brother. He called me and told me I am keeping the kids form him, and so he’s not going to pay any more child support.

I don’t know what to do. Should I take him back to court over the child support issue, and ask to get the visitation reviewed while we’re at it? Or should I make the kids go over there on Tuesdays and every other Thursday like the papers say, and tell the ex that’s all he gets? Since he said what he did to Kait about her being no good, I haven’t allowed the kids to answer the phone when it’s h

By: shojo

She doesn’t like books, I’ve tried that. I’m not allowed to take her anywhere besides her backyard. She’ll watch TV, but only if you force her. I’m 14 years old and I’m totally bored. Do you have ideas to keep me from getting bored and still keep this little girl happy and entertained?

By: &&Taylor;;