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By: scene girl

Basically, I met a guy on the subway Last summer. It was real simple actually, we just sort of started talking to eachother because we were sitting beside eachother and we were both leaving at the same stop. I honestly though he was in his 20s, or even older than me because he looked older and he was real mature. The very next week we went to a festivle together, and I actually had an amazing time with him. It turned out he was only 16 years old…At that point I wasn’t too concerned or worried or anything, we still did things together every single weekend. When he did tell me, at first I was pretty shocked/surprised but I wouldn’t let that hold me back or changed how I thought just because everytime we were doing things together we had a blast and we seemed to get along perfectly. Just near the end of Summer we got a little closer with eachother, he was the first to reach out for my hand one day at the mall, I was the first to give him a peck on the cheek. So after that we were alot closer with eachother.

Since we both lived at our own places(in Canada) (he lived in a bachelor suite by himself and didn’t have any support other than from himself and moved from his mum’s when he turned 16) and I lived on my own in a small 1 bedroom apartment room; We both decided we would move into a nice-er 2 bedroom apartment building and split rent and just be roommates because rent was difficult for both of us. Of course you can say we were dating, but we were NOT girlfriend/boyfriend.

Ever since we became roommates(Its been a little over 3 months now) it seems almost like a dream, I really haven’t ever been any happier in my life. Before when I lived by myself, I would always be up all night just watching tv alone, I didn’t really have anyone to talk to or anything;depressed in a way (I’m not exactly a very open social person with many people)….Now everynight we watch tv and movies together, and we DO cuddle and sometimes we stay up the entire night just talking laying next to eachother in bed. He’s told me all his experiences, and he’s really already been through alot and I’m shocked to hear what has happened so far just since he is 16 and has bursted into tears many times from telling me about things. I really would say he was the sweetest,dreamiest, most interesting and emotional person I’ve ever met in my life. I thought 16 year olds were all about hormones raging and wanting to have have sex, but I knew he was different after the first time we talked. How can JUST his age (a number) make any difference? For him a number doesn’t mean anything, if instead of his age being 16 and it was 24 it would make zero difference because I’ve known older males and he is alot more mature and cares alot more about things I have to say. He told me I was the first girl he had ever kissed. Like I said we’ve both slept in the same bed together, doesnt need to mean we’ve had ***. We’ve kissed, cuddled, held hands,held eachother, I’ve massaged him, and last of all slept together and thats it nothing that included ***.I would have to be honest to say I am physically attracted to him and he has told me he thought I was the most beautifl girl he has ever met, I’ve thought about *** many times but I have alot of self control and I wouldn’t ever do anything until I knew what he thought.. I’m an extremely emotionally sensitive person as well as he is, so he always has been there for me as I will always be there for him.

My main question being…If we had become in a relationship with eachother, as in known to friends, family etc, would there be trouble? Would there be harassment from others? How would YOU feel we as what I’ve explained were in a relationship together?Lastly, how would I go about approaching about what he thinks of the idea of ***? I know for a fact he won’t ask me to be his girlfriend, but If he did I would say yes. It would be me to ask him…He is strong and fit physically, but his heart and inside is like fragile glass, I’m the exact same way. It would be very hard for me to ask him too…But It will be me. He is the only person I’ve opened my heart to, and I know he has to just from being around him all the time. He goes to school too, every morning and he realizes how important it is to finish school; I make his lunch every morning too…=)

Thank you so much if you read this and if you answer, This was so long and I honestly am sorry for making it so long even though I didn’t intend it to be a novel
HAHA well about making his lunch. He always wakes up a little late and doesn’t have any time to so I told him to not worry about it. He makes me meals all the time too though lol

By: LindsayLike

I don’t even know why I’m scared to do it…it was just so unexpected the first time and I don’t want to do it again.

Does this make me a bad girlfriend if I don’t want him to get ‘happy’?
Is there something wrong with me?

Remember MATURE guys and girls ONLY to answer this question. Meaning I don’t want any stupid answers!

By: **Ashie**