how many people think it is alright for a guy to date a girl 5 years older?
October 8th, 2009 Posted by: admin
for example the guy is 20 and the girl is 25. i think it is alright because the girl is more mature then if she was younger. let me hear ur opinions
By: chapelleseducatedguesser
By: chapelleseducatedguesser
October 11th, 2009 at 20:03
no problem.
October 12th, 2009 at 02:55
age is a state of mind …. fill your boots while you can.
October 18th, 2009 at 05:52
if they like each other then its perfectly ok!
=)
October 20th, 2009 at 01:41
I think it is okay
October 22nd, 2009 at 02:14
is perfectly fine as long as the both parties are ok with that.
October 24th, 2009 at 04:26
I started dating my husband when he was 18 and I was 24. We got married a few years later and have been happily married for almost 14 years. Every case is different. There is nothing wrong with an age difference if you feel it is right for you.
October 24th, 2009 at 06:42
Absolutely, I have before and it worked out good. It just depends on if you like her enough to continue dating her.
October 24th, 2009 at 11:59
i think you can go to ten but not over
October 27th, 2009 at 08:27
As long as the two have chemistry; age is just a number.
October 29th, 2009 at 22:01
go for it; no problem that I see
November 1st, 2009 at 04:53
Well 20 and 25 is fine. I’d say as long as both are 18+ there’s no problem. There are 8 years between my mum and dad and I know plenty of people with larger age gaps. Admittedly, usually the bloke is older but I can’t see any reason why it shouldn’t work the otehr way round.
November 3rd, 2009 at 22:03
The number of years you have lived has little to do with chemistry between two adults.
November 6th, 2009 at 16:34
Nothing wrong with it at all! I know lots of couples where the girl is older. I guess it only matters if it bothers you…
November 6th, 2009 at 19:45
i think it is all rite mayb the realationship would last longer with the girl bein older
November 8th, 2009 at 08:13
I think it’s great.
November 10th, 2009 at 19:07
It works for me!
November 12th, 2009 at 10:10
Of course it’s ok. Hey, Shakespeare did it. Age differences can be a barrier but really only if people let them.
November 14th, 2009 at 03:45
my wife of twenty years was 17 years older than me,,, so go for it
November 16th, 2009 at 21:51
when you are five years old and she is six, then she is practically grown up.
now you are a bit older, age does not matter so much.
STUFF what others THINK, what do you WANT
November 19th, 2009 at 17:33
Is normal so its my parents my dad is older than my mom for 5 years too
November 21st, 2009 at 19:04
As long as she look good then by all means go for it!!!!
November 23rd, 2009 at 18:57
dont see a problem , it is not that bad of an age gap
November 24th, 2009 at 23:20
As long as neither person is under 18, I don’t think it is a problem. There could be relationship problems though. That is a big difference in mentality. Especially since girls mature faster. Maybe younger guys make her feel **** though. Or she could just like them as a person. It could work or, or not work out, just like any other relationship.
November 28th, 2009 at 07:19
At older ages yes. For example 40 and 45 is good. At younger ages no. For example 15 and 20. Your’s is border-line, but I’d say its fine.
November 30th, 2009 at 07:36
age doesn’t matter as long as you are in love.
December 1st, 2009 at 02:05
It depends… If you are like 8 dating a girl thats 13 than I would feel weired around you buut if your 20 dating a 25 year old women thats fine.
December 2nd, 2009 at 10:15
not a problem with the age difference if the guy is mature enough. girls mature faster than guys, or so thats what the statistics say, but if it works go for it, age is a number, feelings are what matters
December 3rd, 2009 at 12:41
age has got nothing to do with love.
December 5th, 2009 at 19:17
that’s all on person to person base she can be 28 and still have no goals or ambitions and just be immature and you can be a focus 19 year old guy that conducts him self as an 28 year old
December 9th, 2009 at 03:01
Dude! Don’t look over your shoulder, you lucky fellow! Love only comes around once in a while, grab it with both hands. Age means nothing if you get along. Well at least those ages, that is. Best of the luck to the both of you.
December 11th, 2009 at 09:16
There is nothing wrong. You are 20.
Compatibility? Now it will look good but when you get older you will be 25 and she will be 30, When you are at 35 she will be in 40. So marrage will be a issue as you will be in the phase of exploring and she will be in the phase of settling and will you be able to form a family.
Man of the house has loooot of responsibility and very rarely womens would like to take the role and if your woman is willing to take the role then there wont be a problem, if not then there is a big problem. A guy gets settle mostly at the age of 35-40 and a woman will have to waite patiently for it and will a 40-45 year old woman be able to be patient? i dont think so as she would like to take some rest.
Sex would be fun to start with. But is it just *** alone enough?
I have seen young fathers ending up without knowing what to do as they are young have kids. Divorce- allimony at the age of 30 does it sound good?
December 14th, 2009 at 17:46
no problem whatsoever,just dont let her intimidate you! guys have the tendency to look up to girls younger than then…. ive done several times in ages far more complicated than 20(16-17),and it worked out ok. either way,it depends on the girls character and previous experiences,but in any case,dont let her under the impression that youre either showing off(acting as older that you are),or beeing a big baby(acting as your own age,hahaha)! hope ive helped!
December 15th, 2009 at 07:40
love is love, u can’t stop it no matter what, age difference doesn’t count either….i mean look at Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher, or Joel Madden & Hilary Duff…..they’ve got a big age difference, but they’re still a couple…..so 5 yrs age difference wouldnt matter, its the amount of love that matterz